Not really interested in dating
Men know if they’re attracted to a woman the moment they lay eyes on her.Because for men, looks are a big part of attraction. However, for the most part, we value things differently. I spent years doing live theater; starring in roles like Dorothy, Ms. I know one thing for sure, when you’re standing in the spotlight, you are blind to your audience.I’m a funny guy, fairly wise, very goal oriented, and I’m very social.But the bottom line is, I’m just not very good with “relationships” or dating in general.While it’s easy in some ways to say he isn’t that interested, call him a fool and move on, the reality is that may not be what you should do.
–Dustin Hey there Dustin, This means the moment some other guy dresses better, has more connections, a better time piece or an even more outrageous car, she’s going to lose interest in you and chase the shinier objects.
Relationships start different now than they did a decade ago.
Most of us text in the beginning, to see if we feel any sparks or interest towards a new partner, and rarely does it seem that anyone is dating, at least in the traditional sense anymore.
A woman can recognize a man is good looking physically and has a list of impressive credentials AND STILL NOT BE ATTRACTED TO HIM. This works perfectly when they’ve actually paid to see the spectacle of you singing and dancing. What’s bothering me now is that he’s been acting differently towards me ever since. Dear Lauren, My ex-girlfriend said that she did not love me nor was she attracted to me. She made the first move on our first date, she would always initiate PDA's: kissing, touching, even arousing me in cabs, restaurants, the park...
On the other hand, a woman can think a man is not good looking but with time she may well see him as the most handsome man in the world. But when it comes to a date and creating a genuine human connection, this system falls flat. Hi Lauren, I’m friends with this guy and we really get along. He used to text me all the time and now he never texts me unless I text him first. She expressed interest in sex but we never went through with it.
As harsh as the above may sound, rejecting people and showing them how you truly feel is a far better approach at dealing with an unwanted love interest than giving them a sliver of hope that something could happen and ignoring the reality of the situation.